Today, I’m going to tell you “The Magic Question” to ask a girl that makes her like you. And yes, there is sort of a magical question to ask a girl that makes her more interested in you.
It’s a question that helps you build rapport with a girl and I’m going to tell you the question in just a second.
Because knowing the question alone won’t get you any results with women. You need to understand why this question works so well, when to use it, and how to use it. That way you can optimize your chances at getting any girl you talk to to feel that spark of attraction.
Ok, now the question to ask a girl; here it is.
When you’re talking to a girl, I want you to ask her…”What was that like?” Let me say that again; “What was that like?”Or another version is “What’s that like?” Simple I know, but extremely powerfully.
Now why is this question so magical and why does it work so well? Well, when you’re talking to a girl and she tells you something and you ask her “What was that like?” you are sub-communicating to her that
- You’re paying attention
- You care
- You’re interested in her.
These fall under the realm of desire.
People feel good when they feel cared for and desired. You do, I do, women do. Imagine for a second someone asking you that question.
It doesn’t even have to be a girl.
It feels pretty good doesn’t it? “What was that like?” someone asks you as you’re in a deep conversation with them. It makes you eager to answer, right? That is the kind of rapport that you want to build with her.
So that’s part 1, why this question is so powerful.
Part 2 is the fact that this question is emotional and therefore engaging.
You ever watch an interview done by Barbara Walters or Katie Couric or whoever? They’re asking that question.
Why? Because it draws out emotions.
You want the conversation with the girl you’re talking to to be captivating.
This keeps her engaged with you.
Now, when do you want to ask this question? Well first off, you can use this in any type of conversation; with a girl at the bar, on the sidewalk, at the grocery store, in a raging club, on a date, on a second date.
It’s a great way to keep conversation going and keep it flowing smoothly. And when in conversation do you say it? Well here’s a quick list of examples.
- She says “I work for a big attorney down town”. and you say “Interesting”.
- What’s that like?” She says for example “I just went to Miami for a business trip”.
- “What was that like?” She says I grew up in the suburbs of Dallas.
“What was that like?” You see, it doesn’t matter what someone says, big or small, you can always ask them what it’s like.
And it will get them emotionally engaged in the conversation.
Keep this in your arsenal for the next time you talk to anyone and want to connect with them. Hope this magical question to ask a girl to like you gives you the confident to start conversation to her.